It is well known that Judaism, and therefore, being Jewish, is passed through the mother. With the development of donor eggs as a means for creating a family, the arbiters of who is and who is not Jewish, the rabbis, have been forced to decide whether a child born of a Jewish woman using donor eggs of a non-Jewish egg donor can be considered Jewish under Halacha law.
Recently, a group of influential rabbis in Israel has decided that the donor must be Jewish for the children of her eggs to be considered Jewish.
What does this mean for Jewish couples struggling with infertility and ways to build their families while preserving their religious beliefs?
First, there is a very limited supply of Jewish egg donors. Women who are Jewish can command a substantial premium for their eggs, although generally reputable agencies that follow the American Society of Reproductive Medicine guidelines do not allow for much variation in pricing. Regardless, on the open market, an individual or couple can offer a higher sum for a Jewish egg donor who meets their additional criteria. Unfortunately, this has the effect of pricing some families out of the market, or forces them to wait for a donor who meets their criteria at an agency with a smaller pool to choose from. If a baby is produced from a “non-Jewish egg,” when it is old enough, he or she would have to undergo Orthodox conversion when reaching the age of bar mitzvah or bat mitzvah.
Second, for couples using a gestational surrogate, the surrogate may not need to be Jewish. For a good summary of the issues raised in Jewish surrogate motherhood, check here, at there The Women’s Health and Halacha Website. If this ruling from the Rabbis in Israel means the genetic mother is the halachic mother, it may be easier on some level for Jewish couples to locate an acceptable surrogate (countered by the increased difficulty of finding a Jewish egg donor if one is needed).
Cultural issues such as these are only some of the concerns raised by most intended parents. It is crucial that families looking to grow through gestational surrogacy or egg donation consult not only with their religious leaders, but also with a reputable attorney. An attorney can help you screen out fraudulent egg donors, or donors who are taking advantage of your religious convictions. Here at Family Formation Law Offices, we specialize in providing the highest level of professionalism and ethical representation to our clients. We encourage all individuals, couples and families look to grow or build their family to call today to arrange for your free consultation.